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Masooma's avatar

Super super true — make your choice but don't impose it as a universal truth.

Also, we really do need to get out of that stereotypical way of thinking. Everyone's experiences and challenges are unique so generalizing really doesn't help.

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Christina Le's avatar

When are people going to catch up that making sweeping generalizations is not helpful in any way?

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Brianne Fleming's avatar

"They reinforce the stereotype that parenthood, and motherhood in particular, is an inevitable sacrifice of happiness, ambition, and professional growth."

THIS! I let this stereotype stifle me for a while, but since becoming a mom, I've never felt more ambitious, creative, and inspired. You CAN have it all, you may just have to move some things around. Things look different now, but both my cups (personal and professional) are full. Thank you for being one of the few who amplify the positive narrative all parents need to hear. This should be way louder than Chappel Roan.

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Christina Le's avatar

It's always the misrepresentation for me. People assume that just because parents are tired, or that they're juggling a bunch of things, that they can't handle it. I'm at awe with the amount things that parents can do, and that has actually shown me that having parents lead teams are actually the best because they have the softskills to manage.

Thanks so much for reading, Brianne!

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