this was so beautiful to read — you captured my (and I know for sure, so many others') thoughts we tend to sit in as each day goes by. from "I’ve watched countless conversations roll by like trains I was supposed to board" to "I won’t always get it right. But I’m trying my darndest to lean into that fact that clarity, even when it really uncomfortable, is its own kind of kindness…to yourself" feels like the warmest hug. thank you for putting what I can't into words!
“How often do we hear that people welcome “radical candor,” only to watch it get weaponized?”
Fun fact: at one of my jobs, my team had to read this book, and my manager was ten toes down on it. But what that meant in practice was they got to be an a-hole in the spirit of radical candor, and when we were candid, we were punished 🙃
this was so beautiful to read — you captured my (and I know for sure, so many others') thoughts we tend to sit in as each day goes by. from "I’ve watched countless conversations roll by like trains I was supposed to board" to "I won’t always get it right. But I’m trying my darndest to lean into that fact that clarity, even when it really uncomfortable, is its own kind of kindness…to yourself" feels like the warmest hug. thank you for putting what I can't into words!
This resonated so much. Thank you!
“How often do we hear that people welcome “radical candor,” only to watch it get weaponized?”
Fun fact: at one of my jobs, my team had to read this book, and my manager was ten toes down on it. But what that meant in practice was they got to be an a-hole in the spirit of radical candor, and when we were candid, we were punished 🙃
Stop writing my diary please. Lol